A friend of mine recently paid for a reading with well-known, reliable psychic. He told her some things in the reading about her deceased father (including his name) that were spot on, so it’s pretty obvious that he was dialed in. The psychic said:
“Spirit is showing me that you need to continue to watch your diet, practice holistic health, and watch your stomach. They are also showing me cancer. Generally, I see good health. Spirit says you have at least 12-18 years left in life, so you do have time. In the next year, you are going to have quite a major health crisis, and I am sensing that will set you back a bit. It will be difficult, and it will be very challenging. It will take time, resources, energy, et cetera to overcome this. Also, watch your back. I also see an infection. There are some things definitely, but overall, I see you staying strong and overcoming them. Also, watch your back.”
Or, let’s say you are a born again Christian and someone speaks a ‘word of prophecy‘ over you – but the message contains a health warning.
If you received a reading, or prophecy of this nature, would you be worried, or filled with dread? Probably! But here’s how I see it:
I see psychic or prophetic vision as a view of your future, based on who/what you are right NOW.
So, the good news is that if you CHANGE who you are and the energies/reality you are manifesting, you can significantly change your future.
Personally, if I received this information, I would put all of my energies into changing the factors in my life that are contributing to dis-ease. And I would address the emotional, spiritual and physical components simultaneously. I would take this as a warning that I have only this year left to significantly change my life. Or I am in for a boatload of health issues and mobility (back) issues. Here’s my video where I go deeper into this aspect.
Dis-Ease Is God’s Wake-Up Call
When I see a person going through what this psychic has foretold, it tells me that they have seriously lost the vision/purpose of their life and their higher self has tried many times to get their attention and now is bringing in the big guns. SO all of this can be averted, if you GET the message and take ACTION right now to turn your life around. In this case, I would:
1. Make a list of all the things you think, or hear yourself repeating you “should” do. Often we already know where we have gotten off track, we just lack the energy or motivation or courage to make changes, or implement/action our wisdom.
2. Next, I would go to 3 people who know you the best and ask them, “What are my blind spots? What are the areas in my life where I’m screwing up the most, where I’m sabotaging or blocking myself?”
These are then the things you need to shift and heal within this year.
This may seem like a super scary, vulnerable thing to do, but trust me, I tested this out myself and sent that question to 2 of my closest friends, plus my brother and it’s an awesome practice! Not only was it illuminating and helpful, but I received an outpouring of love from my nearest and dearest. Of course, I also received a bit of projection here and there – where their stuff got mixed up a bit with my stuff. But that’s okay, it was still valuable.
3. Don’t wait until you have the cancer or a health challenge to make radical changes, travel to healers, nourish your soul – do it now! And you will then not need the cancer. If you think you are too busy to spare the time for all this healing stuff, here’s the deal: Pay now, or pay later! There are no shortcuts. Think how much more enjoyable your Healing Journey will be if you do it now, before you have all the fear, tests, doctor’s visits, etc. that you will have if you wait until the dis-ease manifests in your physical body. It is already there in your energetic or etheric body – that’s how the psychic or seer is able to see it! It is up to you now whether that dis-ease comes through into physical form.
In this particular case, I would also see the “watch your back” warning as an emotional one. So I would examine who/where you have exposed yourself to someone or even a group or organization that is not what they seem. Who are you trusting, or in relationship with, that your gut knows you should not be? And put space/distance and protection in place. Again, do it NOW. Don’t wait for the manifestation to take place!
We Can All Benefit
But really, I also like this reading, because I’ll bet all of us could benefit by doing these two things:
- Make a list of all the things you think or hear yourself repeating you “should” do. Often we already know where we have gotten off track, we just lack the energy or motivation or courage to make changes, or implement/action our wisdom.
- Go to 3 people who know you the best and ask them, “What are my blind spots? What are the areas in my life where I’m screwing up the most, where I’m sabotaging myself, or blocking myself?” These are then the things you need to shift and heal within this year.
Now let me tell you what I don’t like about this reading…
When we open ourselves up and put others above our own wisdom or abilities, we have assumed a vulnerable position. So it is now the authority figure’s responsibility to handle the person in that vulnerable state with utmost care and compassion. The authority figure must also recognize the delicate balance between speaking the truth as they perceive it, and speaking negativity over the person.
For example, let’s say the person we have put in a position of authority is our medical doctor and our doctor says, “You have an aggressive form of cancer and you have approximately 3 months to live.”
Contrast that with the doctor saying, “Our tests show a form of cancer that tends to be quite aggressive, it’s called X. I’d like you to take some time now to absorb this news and do some research online, and then let’s get together and come up with a plan for how you want to deal with this.”
You ask: “Well, what’s the prognosis, am I going to die? Is this cancer treatable?”
Doc: “All I can tell you is what the stats show us. The average life expectancy is 3 months. But there are also people who live considerably longer than that, and there are people who somehow heal themselves, or achieve spontaneous remission. So much of what determines health or healing is unknown. That’s why it’s really important for you to stay in the driver’s seat here. And that’s why I encourage all of my patients to do their own research and connect with their gut and their higher power, to determine what this diagnosis means to them, and how they want to proceed.”
You see what I mean? Both versions are communicating exactly the same ‘truth’ or information. But one does it in a way that will plunge that person into deep depression, fear and negativity. The other version is certainly not good news, but it’s framed or presented in a way that allows access to self-interpretation and invites the patient to decide: How do I feel about this? What’s MY truth here? And the patient now has a CHOICE of how to feel and how to proceed.
Likewise, I would like to see my friend’s psychic adapt a way of presenting his information that offers choice and empowerment to his client, along with encouragement. He doesn’t have to type all this every time in every email consult. He could simply prepare it once on a webpage and when he gives his predictions to clients, he presents the information with empowering language, and then gives a link to the webpage; which goes in-depth to a process the person can now use to SHIFT their reality/outcomes. Perhaps he has some tools there to help them go within and connect to their own wisdom and their own higher power.
All of us in a position of leadership; as the authority figure, or coach, or healer, or expert need to keep this in mind: Present the truth as you see it. But always give that truth within a framework of empowerment, encouragement and access to positive action.
UPDATE: My friend who received the original psychic prediction emailed the psychic back for further clarification about the cancer. However, due to the holidays, the psychic did not answer her right away.
This gave my friend time to do what I suggested above – and she asked 3 of her closest friends what they thought were her ‘blind spots’ or where she was blocking or sabotaging herself. She said their answers really helped her and she began doing work on both her spiritual and emotional issues, as well as changing her diet.
During the 5 weeks it took for the psychic to respond to her, she spent that time CHANGING things and doing the work on herself, her beliefs, her energy etc. that needs to be done. And look at the SHIFT that occurred when the psychic tuned into her future 5 weeks later!
Original Reading – Dec.13th:
You are going to have quite a major health crisis, and I am sensing that will set you back a bit. It will be difficult, and it will be very challenging. It will take time, resources, energy, et cetera to overcome this.
Second Reading – Jan.22nd:
You are not going to need chemo, et cetera, it’s nothing like that—its like a smaller thing that needs to be rectified, and then you should be fine.
This is hugely exciting and so encouraging for her! Well done!!
As both my friend and her psychic pointed out, there is more work to be done – so she will keep going, but with a whole lot more relief and lightness!
So whether you’ve received a psychic prediction, or a blood test report, or a DNA test result, remember: You still get to CHOOSE.